Not So Happy Truths About Traveling Solo as a Female

Not So Happy Truths About Traveling Solo as a Female

I’m all about empowering women to travel solo because I believe it is one of the most amazing things you can do for yourself. However there’s no point pretending it’s all rainbows and butterflies. Acknowledging and being prepared for some of these unfortunate facts will only make you more prepared. If you’re not shocked by some of this then you will be able to handle it better and know that it is not just you, it is common for many women!

People Might Label and Pity You

Not always, but it can happen. There will be times when you are going to eat a meal alone and that’s something many of us are not accustomed to. People may stare at you and wonder why you don’t have someone to eat with.

Friend and family back home may also see your choice to travel as the wrong one. They may personally value a career and having a family first and therefore pity you for not having those things. Ignore it all. Shrug it off. You are learning and experiencing so many things that having a family would not allow you to do. To each their own.

You May Be Held Back

There are certain things that you either can’t, shouldn’t or simply don’t want to do alone. Certain hikes may not be safe for just one person and while you can normally find a buddy, it’s not a guarantee.

It’s also easy to get lazy. You can have big plans for a day but without someone else to push you, it can get easy to let the exhaustion of traveling get to you and just hang out at the hostel for the day. Keep in mind, this isn’t always bad. Your hostel is a great place to meet people and giving yourself time to rest is important while on the road.

Oh, The Rules

As an American, I’m used to a pretty free life as a woman. No, everything is not equal yet but we don’t have as many restrictions as women do in other places in the world. It can be hard going to a country where you are expected to cover your body or behave in a certain way. Let it make you grateful for the freedoms you enjoy and try to not be judgmental of these differences… even as you’re sweating your butt off wearing pants in blazing heat.


This is a Spanish term for the compliments received in many Latin American countries. In other words, it is cat calling. In some countries it’s worse than others and if you’re in a country where your skin and hair look different from the locals then it’s easy to be picked out and harassed. I had a terrible experience in Turkey with this. It was so frustrating walking through the markets that we just ran home immediately. It can be taken as being flattering but eventually it’s just annoying.

Still Go

None of this should hold you back. Traveling alone or with friends is a beautiful thing. When you go home you will not be thinking about the uncomfortable or bad times that you had. You will only remember the amazing parts so just focus on those in the present as much as possible!

Las Vegas Travel Guide for Women


Vegas is probably one of the hottest destinations for Americans and travelers abroad alike. It’s impossible to compare it to anywhere else in the world. Which means… you might be looking for some tips before heading there! It’s a great place to visit and this guide will help ensure you have an excellent time.

Bring Your Walking Shoes

You will definitely be walking around Vegas quite a bit. For me, this is a major plus in a city. In so many places in the US it’s necessary to rent a car to get around but Las Vegas is not one of those places. You can get a taxi if need be but mostly you’ll be walking, so bring good shoes! It’s also blazing hot but the misters on the street help keep it manageable.

It’s Sin City for a Reason

This is not a good place to go if you’re feeling judgmental. You’ll see things happening in Vegas you wouldn’t normally see and people doing these things that probably would be better off somewhere else. It’s okay, take it for what it is and just enjoy the experience. It’s a good time to learn to focus on yourself and not others!

Common Sense

Las Vegas is compact but still a big city and in any city it’s important to use your street smarts. Never go somewhere isolated with a new friend, don’t walk home alone at night (sober or drunk) and hold tight to your valuables at all times. Play it safe and you’ll be fine.


This may not shock other travelers but normally in the states it is illegal to smoke indoors. This law does not exist in Vegas, which can be quite off-putting to some people. Casinos can get especially smoky so if this bothers you, choose where you spend your time carefully.

Get Outside the City

So many beautiful nature areas surround Las Vegas. It’s easy to get overwhelmed by the intensity of Las Vegas; it’s hot, expensive, noisy and bright. If you get there and realize this isn’t quite for you, no big deal. It’s not too hard to take a day trip (or three) outside the city to see some other areas. Even if you are loving and embracing Vegas for all that it is, you should still consider this! It’s always nice to diversify a trip. Las Vegas is sure to be a trip that you will not be able to forget. Whether you’re there to celebrate a special event or just wanting to check it out, you will be sure to leave with some interesting memories.

Girls: Go to Southeast Asia


Thinking about taking your first solo trip? Southeast Asia may not be the first place that comes to mind but it definitely should be. It’s one of the cheapest destinations currently and it’s also a really easy place to make friends to journey with if you’d like. Here are some tidbits to convince you!

Easy on Your Wallet

Solo travel is my favorite travel but it can get kind of expensive since you don’t always have a buddy to split hotel rooms and cab fare with. Southeast Asia is great because everything is so cheap anyways that you won’t even care you don’t have someone to split things with. A day is SE Asia can be as cheap as $20 USD if you want it to be.

Transport is Easy

There’s nothing worse than being somewhere new and being so lost that you can’t even begin to figure out where you are. SE Asia has great public transportation that runs pretty much anywhere and it’s also pretty comfortable. It’s even pretty common to have a bus pick you up at your hostel and take you to the bus station or airport. No more getting lost with your huge pack on your shoulders!

Travelers are Everywhere

This may not be a plus to everyone but especially on your first trip you’ll probably be happy to be somewhere that many travelers flock to. Once you start traveling you’ll also notice that there’s a certain type of backpacker in each area of the world. SE Asia definitely has ones that are ready to meet people and usually party so making friends is a piece of cake.

Rest Assured, You Are Safe

Of course you still need to be cautious no matter where you are since no place in the world is crime free. However, SE Asia feels incredibly safe and most of the time you probably are. It’s all about using your common sense and if you don’t put yourself in a bad situation you probably won’t run into any trouble.

Great Locals

Southeast Asia is incredibly different from the Western world, which makes it fun and interesting. The street food is delicious (and once again, cheap) and the locals are the best. Even if you don’t speak the language they’ll still try to strike up a conversation. I can’t think of a good reason not to go to SE Asia. Whether you’ve got a week to spare or an unlimited amount of time, it’s definitely worth it to get yourself there to experience a brand new culture that is sure to leave an impact on you.

How to Travel Safe as a Woman


As a solo female traveler I cant begin to count how many times people have warned me that I shouldn’t be traveling on my own, worried for me, tried to guilt me out of going because of how much my family back home would worry, and overall just tried to stop me. No way did I listen to that. Traveling can be dangerous… as can riding a bike, driving a car, or going to the grocery store for men and women alike anywhere in the world. The world is a dangerous place but it’s also full of kind and helpful strangers. Anything can happen anywhere and this should never stop a woman from traveling on her own!

That’s not to say we shouldn’t be smart about it. There’s no reason to take unnecessary risks and it’s always important to use common sense to stay as safe as possible. Read on to see some of my top tips for staying safe on the road.

1. Research, research, research!

It’s so important, and fun, to research your destinations before you get there. As you’re looking up the best places to eat, sights to see, monuments to stand in awe at, you should be looking up what neighborhoods to avoid, how to pick out a safe taxi and where a good medical center is. When picking out accommodation there are tons of sites nowadays to read reviews from other travelers like yourself to make sure you’re staying somewhere that you will feel happy and safe. The more you read, the better off you’ll be.

2. While on the move, keep valuable close

Realistically, you should be bringing as few valuables as possible but certain things such as a passport are unavoidable. Your passport, camera, phone, wallet, laptop and any other items such as this should be kept in a purse or day bag which you keep with you at all times. These items should never be in your checked luggage on a plane, placed in the luggage storage on a bus or out of your sight in general.

3. Take as little as possible

When you’re walking around the city there’s no reason to bring your entire wallet with you. It’s better to only carry as much as you need and leave the rest locked up at your hostel. Some may have safes but many also have lockers that you can use. Usually you need your own lock, so bring one along!

4. Don’t be too trusting

Unfortunately, there are con artists out there who make it a point to befriend travelers and you must be wary of them. It’s great to make friends and most people out there are genuine, but never put yourself in a vulnerable situation. You should always know where you are and how to get home, avoid isolated areas and never leave your valuables with a new friend at the bar while you run to the bathroom.

5. Stay sober(ish)

It’s great to drink while out exploring a new place but you should never drink so much that you lose control or are unable to keep your wits about you.

6. Blend right in

Normally, great to stand out if you like. But on the road that just makes you a target and there’s no need to do that. Dress as the locals do and make sure that if you’re looking up directions you don’t do so obviously or in a crowded area.

7. Don’t be too cheap

We all want to save money while traveling so that we can see and do as much as possible. But when it comes to the cheap hotel in the scary neighborhood or the slightly more expensive one in a safe area, spend the money.

8. Copies of everything

Things can get stolen unfortunately, it happens. That’s why you should be smart and keep extra copies of important documents like your passport in different places as well as with a friend or family member back home. Following these tips and you’ll be sure to stay as safe as possible. The safer you are the better so you only come home with memories of good times!

Girls, Time to Head to Washington D.C.

Girls, Time to Head to Washington D.C.

Washington D.C. is not only a place full of history; it’s also a place full of fun. If you’re in the US and have the time it would be a shame to skip this city! It’s so easy to get around and there’s truly an endless amount of things to do to keep you busy. Here’s just a few!

Historic Sites Galore

When you’re in D.C. you will pretty much always be surrounded by history, which is pretty awesome. There are a few places you have to be sure to see. The Lincoln Memorial Reflecting Pool is a beautiful place to take a stroll or have a seat and people watch. Right nearby you’ll find the Washington Monument and the Lincoln Memorial as well. Of course, when you’re in the city you can’t pass up going to the White House, it’s a D.C. must!

Some other great options include doing a night tour to see the city in a different light (haha!) and also taking a bus tour. This can be great for those of us that forgot to pack our comfy shoes or simply just want to kick back!

If you want to leave D.C. for a little bit, it’s easy enough to do a day trip to Gettysburg. The history here is astounding and not only that, it’s quite beautiful.

Fun Time

Washington is also a great place to have a good time. If you’re not too tired after exploring all of the history the city has to offer, there’s plenty more to do.

Rasika is a great place for Indian cuisine and Charlie Palmer Steak on Capitol Hill is a can’t miss. Not only that but you’ll find several lovely places with bottomless mimosa brunches, you can’t go wrong.

For all you sports fans out there, going to see a Washington Nationals baseball game is a great time. They say that baseball is America’s pastime so what better place to see a game while eating a hot dog and having a beer than the nation’s capital?

If you’re looking to have a drink at the end of the day there are plenty of bars to choose from. Penn Social, Chez Billy, and Red Derby are all as fun as their names sound. If those don’t tickle your fancy, there are always more to be found.

On You Go!

This city is just limitless. One of the best parts is that it’s a city but doesn’t even really feel like it. It’s not full of skyscrapers like most cities, which keeps it from feeling overwhelming. It can get pricey, but worth every penny. There’s so much to do here that no matter what you’re looking for, you will find it.

Dances Around the World

Dances Around the World

Dance is one of the most beautiful expressions of art that is out there. It is also a great way to get to know a culture. Local dances can represent so much about a country and their people. Here are just a few.

1. Hula
This dance is quite common in Hawaii and was brought over by the Polynesians partially as entertainment but also as a way to worship the gods. The traditions of hula have changed over time such as the lei and the costume. It has become more of a form of entertainment for tourists but that doesn’t mean that it has lost its beauty.

2. Bon Odori
This has been part of Japanese Buddhist culture for more than 500 years. They are apart of Bon Festivals, which are known as Obon which usually lasts for three days and is a time where deceased ancestors visit to check in on their family. Bon odori welcomes the ancestors and while there are many varieties of the dace they are usually performed during street parades.

3. Irish Stepdance
While it can look quite complicated, Irish stepdance can actually be performed at many levels making it a suitable dance for many. This dance dates back to pre-Christian times in Ireland but it is now quite common at Irish festivals or St. Patrick’s Day celebrations all over.

4. Ghoomar
A folk dance of Southern India, Ghoomar is a graceful dance that includes twirling colorful skirts which makes it even more enjoyable to watch. Women are the only ones who dance but men and women will sing together during this performance. It is a dance used to worship religious deities as is common with many folk dances.

5. Maypole dance
This dance started as a pagan custom in the United Kingdom in which women would dance around a wooden pole to celebrate sex and fertility. Nowadays, it is more common for children to wrap ribbon round the pole while dancing and singing.

6. Samba
In Brazil, the Samba is much more than a dance. It is a huge symbol of their culture and people. There are more than seven different kinds of samba but they are always danced with traditional samba music. A lively event with guitars, tambourines, and colorful headdresses makes it a great time!

7. Harlem Shake
This popular dance in New York actually came from Eastern Africa in the 1980s. It mostly incorporates a lot of shoulder shaking and movements of the head. The best part is how easy it is to pick up!

8. Flamenco
A dance that truly evokes emotion. It is known for its passion and intensity due to the exquisite body language of the dancers as well as their hand clapping and foot stomping. The costumes are important as well since the long skirts are often used to highlight the movements of the dancers.

9. Haka
Coming from New Zealand, this dance was originally more of a war cry. Overtime it has transformed into a dance but still with many variations. It includes much chanting, chest beating and stomping. It has become most popular as the rugby teams began to perform it in 1905.

10. Salsa
This Cuban dance has become especially popular in the last few decades. It consists of many different styles as it has spread all over the world which is probably partially due to the fact that it is quite easy for many to learn.

Ballet in New York City

Ballet in New York City

New York City is truly a limitless place. It is full of museums, parks, lively nightlife, and art of all sorts including dance. While the unending options are a beautiful thing, it can also become quite overwhelming. Many will only visit the big apple once or twice and may have limited time and so you’ll want to make sure you’re visiting the best places as to not waste any time.

To come to New York and not see the ballet would be a mistake. It is a beautiful experience no matter where you go. However, there are certain places where you can be especially sure to have an experience you’ll never forget.

David H. Koch Theater

The Koch Theater, which used to be known as the New York State Theater, is part of Lincoln Center and was created specifically for ballet. It has 2,600 seats but they can fill up quickly so it’s important to buy tickets ahead of time which can range anywhere from $150 to under $30. The principal company is the New York City Ballet but hosts over 60 ballets. It is most famous for its annual performance of the Nutcracker but has programs in both the spring and winter.


A shortened name for the Brooklyn Academy of Music, BAM has been around for 150 years and offers a variety of entertainment including ballet, music, theater and opera. BAM has locations all over the city including the Howard Gilman Opera House with 2,100 seats and the Beaux Arts building, which was built at the beginning of the 20 th century. Many companies perform here including the Lyon Opera Ballet and the American Ballet Theater as well as many contemporary ballet companies.

Joyce Theater

While it was originally built as a movie house, the Joyce was renovated to be one of the most remarkable places to watch ballet in the city. On the smaller side, it has only 472 seats and is located in Manhattan. Many companies frequent the Joyce but the Cincinnati Ballet, Pilobous, and Ballet Hispanico make appearances more than others. A few of the benefits of coming to the Joyce is that seats can be found at a very reasonable price and there is also public parking nearby as well as being located near to the subway.

10 Things Every Female Traveler Should Know


Women are just as capable, smart, and savvy as men, if not more so! However, we still face different challenges than men on the road. Due to this, there are different things we need to look out for and be aware of. Below are some great tips to keep you safe on your trip and make sure you have the best time ever.

1. Embracing your natural beauty: While on the road you’re not going to have access to all your typical products and accessories. Quite frankly, you won’t even want to be bothered with makeup as you’re off on your adventures! This is the time to fully love your natural beautiful self.

2. Trust your instincts: If you feel like you’re in a bad situation or in danger, listen to yourself. Female intuition is a real thing so embrace it and listen to it.

3. A big scarf is your best friend: It will keep you warm on chilly bus rides, it will block out light when you’re trying to take a nap or serve as the best pillow and you will look stylish wearing it in cold cities!

4. Confidence is key: Not only will this be the best way to make friends but looking and acting confident will help keep you safe. If you look like you know what you’re doing and where you’re going, you will be left alone.

5. For now, heels are not your friend: A lot of love them, but not when you’re walking around new places 10 hours each day. Leave them at home!

6. Traveling with friends is tricky: You can love them to the moon and back but it doesn’t matter traveling with your bffs will be easy. Getting everyone on the same page can be hard and the little things that bother you can be amplified. So….

7. Travel solo: Because it really is amazing. Especially if you go in the off-season you’ll basically only find other solo travelers. This means you’re never lonely, always have a drinking buddy, never lacking to find someone to explore with and can always do exactly what you want to do, when you want to.

8. It’s okay to be scared: This is how you’re going to make the best memories. The feeling after accomplishing something you were terrified to do is like nothing else you will ever feel. Go for it, always.

9. If you can’t carry it, it’s too much: You’re going to be dragging that backpack around with you every few days as you switch cities. If it’s hard to pick up on the first day, it’s only going to feel ten times heavier as your trip goes on. Pack less!

10. You will fall in love: With a person, a city, and a culture. You can be sure that along this journey you’re going to fall in love and find new places in your heart to hold these special people and places.